Is Happiness A Choice? | Freefall Self Improvement

Fascinates the hell out of me the amount of people who say when asked ?What do you want in life? and the standard response usually is ?I want to be happy?.

But what does that really mean?? Happiness is relative.

I have mentioned before in previous blogs that the 3 hardest things to get out of people are:-

1. What do you want?
2. What are you motivated by?
3. What are you committed to?

If you can answer these 3 questions I think you have half the game won in life.

I decided to write about this topic today because in the field of coaching, you can imagine the amount of people who proclaim that their life and or business is not where they want it to be, but what you perceive is not working usually is working alright. The area?s which you say are not working are actually where the answers lie.

What Do I Mean By This?

If we are to agree that we are the creators of our reality then our life reflects how we think.? If it is not how we would like it to be, then one would think one would need to create it differently.? I believe happiness is not elusive, it is a choice.? If you are not happy with your lot then this is because you are not choosing it to be.? Life will ALWAYS present different circumstances and we will forever oscillate between FEELING good one minute or bad the next based on the next set of circumstances.? What if I said your state is not reliant on circumstances shifting.? What would you say?? It seems to be that people live life at consequence to circumstance and as a result experience life in a constant state of oscillation.? If you wish to experience living in an empowered state all the time ? and yes this is possible then this is a function of raising ones awareness that this is in fact possible.

So How Do You Access This Level Of Awareness?

We live in two realms of consciousness ? lower level consciousness and higher level consciousness.? When we live at the lower level we are living in what I would term the realm of ?meaning?.? All suffering for example stems from what we make things mean.? FACT -? When we live at a higher level of consciousness we have learnt that we can be an observer of all that is, with no added meaning and experience what some term ?equanimity?, the ability to remain undisturbed in the face of good or ill fortune ? can?t be good or ill unless we make it mean that!

In my line of work I teach human awareness to people who aren?t aware wondering why they are not getting it, for unless they taste it, touch it, feel it, experience it, they don?t know they want it or need it ? try and package that one up and sell it!!!

It saddens me that it usually takes an adverse experience for people in general to shift their consciousness ? they are almost forced to find another way versus willingly choosing to explore, unearth, uncover, news ways of operating.

Benefits of Living At A Higher Level Of Consciousness

Rather than wait for an adverse experience to shift you into living life in a more aware state, one can choose to be in the inquiry ongoingly.? But we would have to build a big enough self interest to be in that inquiry.? What are some of the benefits of living at a higher level of consciousness/awareness?? You have the ability to:

1. Know what it happening, all the time
2. Maintain, sustain an empowered way of life rather than oscillating between
   feeling empowered one minute and disempowered the next
3. Not be impacted by external circumstances
4. Realize the higher meaning of what is being experienced
5. Not be triggered as much by what life throws at you
6. Live in the realm of equanimity and that folks is truly priceless
7. Laugh more and not be so serious, significant and dramatic
8. Experience more peace and tranquility, life is less dramatic
9. Evolve in your potential to ?pay it forward? which from my perspective is our collective responsibility as a fellow traveler on this planet
10. Be happy because you realize that it is in fact just a choice

Regardless of where you operate, we all have the potential to evolve to new levels of awareness.? If you are called to inquire more into what could be possible in your own life then you may wish to consider joining us on our next Freefall Seminar for our education is solely focused on what we term ?Awareness Based Training?, the more aware we are, the more wisdom we can access ? leave you in the inquiry

Source: http://www.freefallselfimprovement.com/is-happiness-a-choice/

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